Obses

assalamualaikum & hello!
so, today i would like to share about obses
what i know about obsession is thing/people/anything that u are crazy about ( i dont know the specific terms or definition of obses, pardon me)
the first thing that i wanna talk about that i can clearly see among the teenagers and malaysian of course is obession toward:

1) LOVE
- especially among the teenagers, we always thought that we MUST have a boyfriend/girlfriend, i dont know why this kind of mentality is happening.. ya i know la at this age, we are so gedik to be in love, to be loved and all that. BUT it doesnt mean you have to be that desperate to find partner. its like "being a single is a sin" NO LA, in Islam, couple is haromm hahaha! (im not that alim, but i do know the hukum)
the conclusion is, you dont have to be desperate even though all your friends, cousins etc are getting married or in a relationship. you stop looking and they will come to you. all you young people need to stop being thirsty, you will find love eventually.

2) KPOP
ah this issue, so mainstream..and irritating. dear kpoppers, its not a fault that you guys are so obsess with the kpop idols, but please CALM YOUR ......... as we can see, all the kpoppers like to retweet, tweet, share about KPOP idols in their twitter, fb and instagram. i do think, they have to reduce their obsessesion, as it will lead to many bad behaviour.

3) BEAUTY
yes this one is my favourite. everyone want to look beautiful. how to look beautiful? its not only depends on your clothes or face or style, but the true definition of beauty is your personality. however, some girl are so obses to look pretty, they will try their best just to look pretty. they will make up, put the mascara, lipstick, blusher, foundation, concealer and other cosmetic products..i know it, because i did it.
some people are not blessed with the flawless skin, we cant blame them for being too obses with make up, sometimes when they put the make up on, then only they have the confident. but, we have to keep this in mind that, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, and nobody has the right to make you feel like you're not.
lastly, you dont have to try that hard just to please other
"beauty isnt about looking perfect, its about celebrating your individuality"

so, i guess thats all for this topic. thank you and bye!